Each child is different and special in their own way. That's why it is weird when you suddenly realize that because your child has FXS he is actually a lot like a ton of others. Not that Isaac isn't individual, don't get me wrong; but there are things he does that are a part of him I love. Yet, I see other kids with FXS and think, "Oh my goodness! It's like I'm watching Isaac!" Now I know what my sister means when she says Isaac reminds her of her son. At first I just told her I don't see any resemblance. Now I understand.
The first time I really noticed this was while I was watching a video a mom posted of her little boy with FXS. He was doing all the hand flapping, absent minded walking, and so forth that Isaac does. It was weird! You would think I would know to expect this, but it is still weird. I imagine those who have children with down syndrome feel similar because they also have similar physical characteristics. It just fakes me out.
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